I hate that feeling...
I just had a fight with my friend (I think so) and it's not over yet... It started when I comment on her photo where she is wearing a winter hat. I commented, I said: " Don't wear tat la... sini malaysia leh.." As a friend so should already noe tat when I am kidding and when I'm not. I guess her sister , her rude sister dun understand tat. Her rude sister said:" People already buy the hat and if dun wear the hat, wat is it for? and wat do u mean by here is malaysia? everyone got their own fashion."
I wasn't so angry when i saw this, I simply explain to her tat I "scare" her head will get hot. I guess she got me the wrong way, and so is everyone else. If I'm her friend, I won't criticize her way of dressing...
Her rude sister scold me : do you noe wat is the function of a hat.. I tried to remain calm, I replied, yes, a hat is for us to block the sunlight, but i dun think tat's a need for a winter hat... the rude sister scold me again, she said tat the hat is oso a sense of fashion , and it's oso used to block off UV light... She then said, If u think that she dun need tat , why don't u just dun wear anything and just stay in ur room? and if u dun wear a hat, why do u care if she wear 1?
I admitted, i was pissed off. It can just be a joke and we can just laugh it off, but becos of her snobbish and rude sister, things became this instead. I was angry then I called my friend.. I said i'm angry becos her sister is being rude... I said i dun like her sister, and i said it in a very jokey way... i can understand if she dun like i say i dislike her sister ...
But later she chat with me... she said she saw the comments already... She said she agree with her , if not why she even by the hat. I was even angrier then before. As my friend, she should noe tat i'm just joking... Do you think tat I was really asking her not to wear the freakin' hat? I was really angry , then i said i scare she got heat stork( which was oso a freakin' joke) she ask me go die.. I can't take it anymore, i tell her I dun wan to choy her already... she dun even try to pujuk me... I remember her saying tat to me every 10 minutes last time she was having her PMS.... I rarely said those kind of things becos i appreciate my friends ... Her favourite friend, TM ( which I don't like) got a boyfriend, then she started ignoring her, then she came to me, but then when ever TM's around she won't even see my existents.. I don't noe it's just me or it is the truth... I don't feel appreciated by my friend...
Those incidents happened a few days before, but until now we still haven't talk.. not that i want to... but just to make my point that we haven't make up...
I hate the feeling of not being appreciated....
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